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A Very Sexy Second Life

Second Life is an enormous online community based on the all the tenets of real capitalist society.  The virtual reality is composed of avatars or virtual representations of real people, who’ve formed communities structured on dollar-based economies in which things can be bought and sold.  There’s also Sex Education.  A project initiated by the University of Plymouth in Britain, the virtual world sex education island even features a free condom dispenser.

A blog about the project has updates on expansions and the success of the island.  I first heard about the project via a talk delivered by sex-world impresario Cory Silverberg (SL:SeeLee Markstein) at the annual AASECT conference this past June.  Silverberg is widely known with the sexual health and education community as the sex toy expert on late night talk show host Sue Johanson’s legendary Talk Sex and as one of the founders of Come As You Are, Canada’s only democratically run, workers coop sex shop.  Silverberg also writes for About.com about, of all things, sex.  In his presentation at the AASECT conference, he brought to my attention the viability of a virtual world-based sex education as particularly pertinent in the face of our technological explosion in the past decade and that sex education in Second Life seems to have lived up to its tremendous potential both for those who are reticent to interact in the physical realm and for those whom interacting in the physical world is more difficult (e.g. for the millions and millions of people who face unique obstacles as a result of disability).  For the disabled, the intimacy of sex education in one’s own home and on one’s own terms is a tremendous step forward in the right direction in the furnishing of information for all individuals promoting informed and empowered decisions.  The SIM, as a virtual locale is called, even has one feature that blurs the in-world (i.e. in Second Life) and real world boundaries as one-on-one consultations with “real” professionals are even available via a teleport to a private, elevated space within the SIM. The sex education island complements an already robust Healthinfo island with access to different webpages, information from the World Health Organization, educational kiosks on STI’s and a rotating Earth globe provides access to two Worldmapper’s maps of HIV prevalence and HIV/AIDS deaths.  The sex ed SIM also features male-specific resources, like a tour of the testis.  Meanwhile, last December the in-world got an outer world experience as a sesries of live seminars  led by academic Barbara Hastings-Asatourian, a senior nursing lecturer and managing director of Contraception Education at Salford University were led on issues like contraception.  (see the story at The Guardian).  Of the seminars and island, Hastings-Asatourian said:

“As far as I know, this is the first time that a seminar focusing on sexual health has been delivered on the Second Life website. Over the last 12 months I’ve been looking at social networking sites as a way of getting through to young people. Far from just being a source of amusement for people, it offers a huge opportunity for education.” [via Easier.com]


University of Plymouth Sexual Health SIM in Second Life from mnk boulos on Vimeo.

The virtual just got a whole lot sexier…………

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As if being female didn’t already carry a price with it…

Robert Pear for the NY Times:

Striking new evidence has emerged of a widespread gap in the cost of health insurance, as women pay much more than men of the same age for individual insurance policies providing identical coverage, according to new data from insurance companies and online brokers…In general, insurers say, they charge women more than men of the same age because claims experience shows that women use more health care services. They are more likely to visit doctors, to get regular checkups, to take prescription medications and to have certain chronic illnesses.

Marcia D. Greenberger, co-president of the National Women’s Law Center, an advocacy group that has examined hundreds of individual policies, said: “The wide variation in premiums could not possibly be justified by actuarial principles. We should not tolerate women having to pay more for health insurance, just as we do not tolerate the practice of using race as a factor in setting rates.”

In Columbus, Ohio, a 30-year-old woman pays 49 percent more than a man of the same age for Anthem’s Blue Access Economy plan. The woman’s monthly premium is $92.87, while a man pays $62.30. At age 40, the gap is somewhat smaller, with Anthem charging women 38 percent more than men for that policy.

In job-based coverage, civil rights laws prohibit sex discrimination. The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission says employers cannot charge higher premiums to women than to men for the same benefits, even if women as a class are more expensive. Some states, including Maine, Montana and New York, have also prohibited sex-based rates in the individual insurance market.

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A fanciful, but awesome Safer Sex ad from India!

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My Little Woody

I recently bought a sex toy out of wood.  And before your mind becomes racked with splinters let me clarify that the toy is super-duper laminated. Nob Essence, the manufacturer of the piece, is so proud of their work they don’t even refer to it as a toy, becuase it surely isn’t for children, but rather adoring call it a sculpture, a word that more aptly suits the craftsmanship that went into one of these bits. So it’s laminated, but is the lamination safe? Sex toys always pose an interesting problem of figuring out how safe/unsafe the toy itself is, apart from whether the safety of the scene and different than the practice of safer sex.  Safety, this is a buzzword is sex life.  Many of the toys produced for sex use in the US are under no obligations to not contain known-carcinogens.  Because the US is so awfully prudish, there are no federal regulations overseeing the quality of locally produced and imported toys.  The only agency that comes close to doing quality control is the Food and Drug Administration (FDA), which often incidentally gives a product the green light as its materials are being tested for other “legitimate” uses.  The FDA enforces policies developed based on the findings of the US Pharmacopeia (USP), which also regulates medical products and material safety of surgical equipment. 

So back to Lubrosity, as the finish on my toy is called.  It meets USP class IV and VI medical standards and contains no waxes, no salad boll oils, no phthalates and no petroleum distillates.  Great! It is compatible with all lubes, which means I can use my favorite silicone one. Awesome! They make custom toys….AMAZING! 

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Scary Study, Dangerous Article: HPV linked to throat Cancer, ABC linked to propaganda

A new study  has come out that is linking some throat cancer cases in non-smoking, healthy young people to the presence of HPV-16 in biopsy samples.  ABC News is reporting, though, that oral sex may be leading to cancer.  What they mean is, that HPV is being transmitted from genitals to oral cavities, where it is migrating to the throat and developing into cancer.  I’m pretty outraged that the language, even the title of the ABC News article “The Oral Sex Cancer Connection” is equating the results of a sexually transmissive disease and the acts that lead to their transmission to an idea as outrageous as blowjobs leading to terminal illness.  I think the most succint way for me to explain my outrage at this article and poor journalism would is best expressed by this sentiment: what ABC is doing is reproducing the same kind of propagandist paranoia that propagated the notion that gay sex, i.e. anal sex, is the cause of AIDS.  ABC NEWS, WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IS DANGEROUS! WTF is wrong with you?

On another strange note, the study also found that this particular HPV-related oral cancer was 35% more likely to develop in men than in women, a striking contrast to women’s almost across the board higher susceptibility for infection for STI’s.

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Happy National Coming Out Day

Happy Coming Out!!
Perez Hilton + HRC = not the kind of honest endorsement of National Coming Out Day I’m particularly happy about.

http://www.hrc.org/issues/10772.htm

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Condom Part of MoMA’s Permanent Collection

It is perhaps the coolest condom ever and if it ever sees the light of day outside of South Africa, the PRONTO condom is destined to revolutionize condom use because of its ease of use.

The condom’s tongue-in-cheek tagline says it all: The best way to get it on! However, this one would work just as well: Snap, Crack and Pop On. An equally funny twist on tag line of Rice Krispies.

The innovative condom hopes to appeal to those who feel tradional condom application is cumbersome or difficult, but should really appeal to everyone because of its simplicity.

Having won the title of Most Beautiful Object in South Africa by Dutch designer Jurgen Bey, the condom was invented by Willem van Rensburg and designed by industrial designer Roelf Mulder of South Africa’s XYZ Design. The innovative applicator was selected by the MoMA as part of its SAFE exhibition two years ago and is now part of the museum’s permanent collection. The hope is that the uber user-friendly design will encourage safer sex practices and help reduce the rampant spread HIV/AIDS, not to mention other sexually transmitted infections (STI’s).

“The user holds the device with the thumb and forefinger of both hands, pulling the condom down over the penis in a single rapid movement.”

[from DeZeen]

“The idea for this product was conceived in 2001 by Willem van Rensburg, a Cape Town based inventor. Says Willem: “It always puzzled me that the process of applying a condom could be so cumbersome – there had to be a better way”. Willem approached Metropolitan Life Ltd for funding of the venture. The company agreed, as the concept fitted well their philosophy for the prevention of HIV/Aids. A joint venture was set up, and development work commenced.”

[from Pronto]


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Presidential Penis Protection

Want to look at the big Willy while wrapping up your willy? Or how about catching a glimpse of Hill-Ro while dressing your dildo? What about the face of Obama before playing with your baby’s mama? OK! I’ll stop. But seriously, if the idea of catching a peek at the pretty punim of a past president or presi hopeful feels up your alley, there is something out there for you. Condomania is a bastion of odd and quirkey condoms and safer sex accessories and has recently come up with a series of condom wrappers donning the faces of some of the most famous US political figures of the past half century. They are available in $12/dozen condom sets or samplers and aptly named Election Protection Condoms.

 

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NYC Wants You to Get Some

These new condoms are all over the street, you’ve probably seen them at a pride event, been handed one as you walked past a large, *friendly* gathering or walked up to one of the new 200 ADULT gumball machine, pushed the button and out popped provisions for safer play. Even though the dispenser may look something like a deflated version of the Staples easy button, the new dispenser is actually a commission from high profile design studio Fuseproject out of California. Swiss born Yves Béhar is the founder of Fuseproject; a studio defined by its ability to produce an array futuristic and humanitarian projects alike ranging from the noise-canceling Jawbone Bluetooth headset to the revolutionary $100 computer that might be able to finally bring the Internet and simple computing to impoverished and neglected communities of children all over the world. The condom dispensers are to be installed in 200 different locations throughout the TriBorough area, my best guess is in bathrooms and other discreet areas. Although I would really like to see one up on in a subway station, it really would be a smart idea that put them up at the Times Square, Penn Station or Grand Central given the amount of foot traffic each station sees daily. Apparently the inspiration for the dispenser’s form came from “a condom shape warped into the surface of one’s leather wallet.” I find this source of inspiration to be somewhat absurd and difficult to read. It also seems something like a punch in the face of safer sex; where’s the warning about carrying condoms this way? I hope the dispenser comes with some kind of magical fairy that imparts some important pearls of wisdom warning consumers that carrying a condom in a wallet is supremely unsafe. In addition to the friction that is generated that can cause tearing of the condom, a body’s 98.6° of heat is far too high for condoms and will cause the latex to degrade. Condoms are the safest approach to sex available so far, but they are fare more fragile than bulletproof vests and need to be preserved at a dry 68º, just like red wine.

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Argentine Film Focuses on Experience of XXY Youth

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